Sayikanmi Jose

"My cousin brother got married on Saturday, and the marriage ended on Tuesday. After the wedding, my cousin brother’s wife started disturbing him, asking why he didn’t want to post their wedding on TikTok, Facebook, and WhatsApp status.

He told her that he didn’t want his wedding online. He told her he wasn’t a content creator, so he didn’t see any reason to put his wedding on social media. He said if she wanted to post it, she was free to do so.

But the wife thr£@ten£d him, saying that if he didn’t post it, then he was hiding something. She said she would never be comfortable in the marriage unless he posted it online. According to her, she wanted to be sure he wasn’t hiding another woman or a child somewhere.

She told my cousin that if he didn’t post the wedding before Monday, she would leave the marriage. On Monday morning, they continued dr@gging the issue. The wife called some of our brothers and cousins to complain. She even called me.

So I called my cousin and told him, “Oga, post your wedding video on social media. It’s nothing. You can’t start your marriage with pr0blems.” Finally, around 2 p.m. on Monday, he posted the wedding video.

Immediately, people started calling him. Customers who usually lodged in his hotel in Lagos congratulated him. Some were surprised and asked why he never told them he was getting married.

Then one person told him, “You sure say you fit stay for this marriage? Girl wey you use do ash@w0 for your hotel, na him you later marry?” Another person said the same thing and more.

To make things clear, my cousin never used that lady for ash@w0. He only made her a supervisor in his hotel when he travelled to China for six months. During that period, he became interested in her and was already planning to marry her.

As more people kept calling, asking why he married a lady they believed used to do ash@w0 in his hotel, he became confused. He asked one of them where the story came from.

The man explained that he once lodged in the hotel and asked the lady to get him an ash@w0. According to him, she replied, “Why are you looking for one when I’m available?”

The man then sent evidence and chats, claiming he paid her ₦50,000 and spent the night with her. That was what got my cousin very a&gry. He called me and said he was coming to my house.

Because of the kind of person I am, I called the lady and asked her to come over too. When she arrived, she was smiling and saying, “My husband finally posted me. We don settle.” I told her, “That’s not the case.”

Showed her the messages and evidence people had sent. Immediately she saw them, she burst into tears. My cousin actually rushed the marriage because she was already pregnant.

This was a lady he sent over ₦4 million to while he was outside the country. She was also earning money as a hotel supervisor, so money wasn’t her problem.

Immediately he returned to Nigeria, it wasn’t even up to three months, this girl told him she was pregnant and that they needed to get married quickly before the pregnancy became obvious.

After spending over ₦15 million on the wedding, the entire marriage ended in days. To think this lady is 29 years, I still wonder why did what she did…”

- Man shares how his cousin’s marriage ended three days after a lavish wedding following their wedding post on social media.

~Gistreel